Bhathru Dwithiya
Bhathru Dwithiya is another interesting name for the
festival of Bhai Dooj. The festival is celebrated on the fifth and last
day of Diwali Festival. This corresponds to the 'Dwithiya' or 'Dooj' day
which is the second day after the new moon. Bhathru Dwithiya Festival is
dedicated to the love and affection shared between brother and sister.
On this day sisters apply sacred red tilak on the forehead of brother
and invoke blessings of Lord Yamaraj for his long life and well being.
Some also propitiate berry trees for the good of their brother. The
festival helps to strengthen the bond of love between siblings and build
family ties.
Bhathru Dwithiya Rituals
On the day of Bhatru Dwitheya it is customary for brothers to visit
sisters and have a meal with her. This custom is called 'Bhagini Hastha
Bhojanam' in Sanskrit. Meaning having a meal prepared by sister. The
custom finds its roots from the legend of Yamaraj, the Hindu
mythological God of Death. The story goes that after a gap of several
years when Yamraj met his twin sister Yami or Yamuna on the Dwitheya day
he received a warm reception. Yami applied tilak on brother's forehead,
performed arti of him and gave him sumptuous meal. Yama was so pleased
with sisterly affection that he announced that anyone who receives tilak
from sister and share a meal with her will not be put in hell. Since
then the custom of celebrating Bhai Dooj is being dutifully carried out
by brothers and sisters.
Performing the rituals of the day, sisters apply sacred red tilak on
brother's forehead, perform arti of him and give him a sweet to eat.
This simple ceremony is symbolic of sister's prayer to Lord Yamaraj for
the brother's long life and well being. Some even pray to Dharamraj's
mythical record keeper Chithraguptha on this day. Many brothers and
sisters also make it a point to take holy dip in the river Yamuna.
Bhathru Dwithiya Celebration
Festival of Bhathru Dwithiya is celebrated with gaiety and enthusiasm
all over India. Brothers and sisters eagerly wait for the arrival of the
festival. The occasion gives them the opportunity to relive fond
memories of childhood and share expectations from the future. People
make merry and relish the best of festive food and sweets. Exchange of
Bhathru Dwithiya gifts between brothers and sisters heightens the
enthusiasm for the day.
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